Friday 19 August 2016
Tuesday 9 August 2016
DECISIONS.
Whenever you'll try to take a decision, there will be many who'll say you’re doing it wrong.
Whenever you’ll think you can, they’ll say you can’t.
But none of ‘they’ matters, what matters is what you think you can or cannot.
As long as you believe in you, you’ll definitely be able to do it. Only our own limitations can prevent us from doing what we want. So decide and do it because it’s your decisions and choices that design your life.
But the challenge lies in going through-What if I fail? What if everyone is right? What if I’m actually doing it wrong?
There is one thing that is true for sure and that is, whatever happens, happens for a good reason. I know many will laugh at this, many will disagree…but believe me, it may does not seem okay right now but sooner or later you’ll realise that it was for the best.
For those who believe in His existence, I would say that maybe things are not going on according to your way but whatever is happening is a part of His plan and He will never do anything that is not for your good. You just have to trust Him and believe in yourself and whatever you’ll decide will be fruitful.
Also, if you believe in the positive energy that exist, you should know that your attitude towards a situation affects the result a lot. I know it’s not always easy, but try to focus on that one positive thing that can happen and let it become the reason to stay strong.
Staying strong does not mean you should not cry or feel miserable. It means that even after hours of crying and blaming life, you stand up and go out and smile and fight like a fighter should. You hide your feelings and fake that smile and that is completely okay because this is what is making you strong. This is what something you'll never forget that despite of all the odds, you made through it!
There are always people in our life who actually care for us; if you know who these people are, do share your feelings with them, both happy and sad, because sharing does reduce pain to some extent and doubles the happiness.
And if you don't know whom to trust, read a book! Any book, trust me. You must have read all these quotations somewhere and believe me, they all are so true - Books are our best friends; Reading heals; Books changes life; There is no friend as loyal as a book; etc.
It's not that difficult to follow your heart and dreams. It's all just a matter of a moment. If we ever try to keep a track of records, we'll notice that our gut feeling is always true. When we think of something, making a decision, the instant answer we get is most of the times right. Because what we think just at the moment is what we actually desire, is what we actually want. When we overthink a situation or a decision, we often make the wrong choice. Because then we start to worry about the result. On the basis of the result we start to think about what's right n what's wrong which is actually kinda ironic because we are trying to predict the future knowing that life is unpredictable.
So friends, trust yourself. Believe in yourself. You can do it, you always can. Don't let anybody or anything tell you that you can't. Keep smiling and spread love.