You are the King of your own Kingdom.

You. 

Yes you my friend, are the King/Queen of your own life. Your life is your Kingdom and you are its Ruler for eternity. All the risks you take, all the decisions you make...will frame your Kingdom. Sometimes you'll destroy it, but it's your responsibility to give your Kingdom back its Pride. It doesn't matter if you failed, it doesn't matter if you think it's all over...no one else is gonna do it for you. It's your duty to stand up and start over if needed because it's your life and you are the one to decide its level of awesomeness! 

Learn from your past mistakes but don't let it stop you from taking risks in future because you never know when you are in for a treat. How can you be so sure that the same will happen again? 

Just trust yourself and do what your heart tells you. Your Kingdom needs you, it needs the confident You and not the You full of fear and doubts. Life is unpredictable and you can't be sure that only good things will happen because that's really not practical, you gotta face both the sides of the coin. But always be confident that no matter what the situation is, no matter how helpless life seems...you'll not break.  

Believe in yourself because you can, you should, and if you're brave enough to start, you will. 

DESTINATION

I decided not to trust,
I decided to be the crust.
I decided not to repeat,
I decided to take a leap.
But She came like a wind and touched my hair,
Whispered in my ears a beautiful prayer.

A prayer that I used to know,
A prayer that took my glow.
A prayer that cursed my life,
A prayer that took my pride.
It was the prayer of Love,
But melodious this time.
It was the prayer of Love,
With a brighter shine.

"But why this time it would be any different?"
"Why this time it won't hurt like before?"
Questions like these wandered my mind,
Troubling my soul day and night.

I heard a voice, very soft and subtle,
I think it was my heart, trying to remove the huddle.
"It's good to learn from your past,
But it's unfair to think that this won't last."
"You need to give it a chance,
Just take another glance."
"Coz life is unpredictable,
You never know what's in the cards."
"All you can do is hope,
And let the Love be the guard."

The message from my heart echoed like anything,
Overpowering the questions that now mean nothing.
Coz she doesn't deserve this just because I feel scared,
She doesn't deserve this because I'm no player.

I'm now to take the same road,
That once lead to destruction.
With a hope that this time it would be different,
My Destination.

LIVE.

I was asked to leave.
I was asked to stop.
I was asked to lose and be a prop.

Maybe it would've been easier to lose,
Maybe it would've been simpler to just snooze,
But the Love was stronger than the fear,
So what if I couldn't catch the falling tear.
The future was brighter with another hope,
It was just a matter of finding the right rope.

There's a funny thing about Time,
No matter how it is, it passes just fine.
You don't know when the sun is gonna be brighter or the night's gonna be darker,
But one thing is for sure, it will get better.

So I decided not to stop.
I decided not to lose.
I decided to believe.
I decided to rule.
And here I am, doing what I love.
Here I am, living my own world.

I'm ready for what's ahead,
I'm ready to fight again.
Coz I want to live like I should.
Coz I want to live like no one would.

Keep Smiling :)

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DECISIONS.

Whenever you'll try to take a decision, there will be many who'll say you’re doing it wrong.
Whenever you’ll think you can, they’ll say you can’t. 
But none of ‘they’ matters, what matters is what you think you can or cannot.

As long as you believe in you, you’ll definitely be able to do it. Only our own limitations can prevent us from doing what we want. So decide and do it because it’s your decisions and choices that design your life.

But the challenge lies in going through-What if I fail? What if everyone is right? What if I’m actually doing it wrong?
There is one thing that is true for sure and that is, whatever happens, happens for a good reason. I know many will laugh at this, many will disagree…but believe me, it may does not seem okay right now but sooner or later you’ll realise that it was for the best.

For those who believe in His existence, I would say that maybe things are not going on according to your way but whatever is happening is a part of His plan and He will never do anything that is not for your good. You just have to trust Him and believe in yourself and whatever you’ll decide will be fruitful.

Also, if you believe in the positive energy that exist, you should know that your attitude towards a situation affects the result a lot. I know it’s not always easy, but try to focus on that one positive thing that can happen and let it become the reason to stay strong.

Staying strong does not mean you should not cry or feel miserable. It means that even after hours of crying and blaming life, you stand up and go out and smile and fight like a fighter should. You hide your feelings and fake that smile and that is completely okay because this is what is making you strong. This is what something you'll never forget that despite of all the odds, you made through it!

There are always people in our life who actually care for us; if you know who these people are, do share your feelings with them, both happy and sad, because sharing does reduce pain to some extent and doubles the happiness.
And if you don't know whom to trust, read a book! Any book, trust me. You must have read all these quotations somewhere and believe me, they all are so true - Books are our best friends; Reading heals; Books changes life; There is no friend as loyal as a book; etc.

It's not that difficult to follow your heart and dreams. It's all just a matter of a moment. If we ever try to keep a track of records, we'll notice that our gut feeling is always true. When we think of something, making a decision, the instant answer we get is most of the times right. Because what we think just at the moment is what we actually desire, is what we actually want. When we overthink a situation or a decision, we often make the wrong choice. Because then we start to worry about the result. On the basis of the result we start to think about what's right n what's wrong which is actually kinda ironic because we are trying to predict the future knowing that life is unpredictable. 

So friends, trust yourself. Believe in yourself. You can do it, you always can. Don't let anybody or anything tell you that you can't. Keep smiling and spread love. 

A Giver

You used to be different, they say. 
You used to smile, they say. 
You used to love, you used to care
You used to shine, you used to glare. 
Time heals everything, I knew, 
Time changes everything, I knew
But I will lose myself, this I never knew. 

I loved, I cared, I shone, I glared, 
Every ounce of my happiness I shared. 
But tables turned and so did my role, 
I wasn't a giver anymore. 
It was time for someone else to lift me up, 
It was time to not let me give up. 

So I looked up for someone to come and hold me, 
But everything was blurred... 
I was expecting someone, so thought it's my tears
Little I knew, this is the world. 

Everyone here is a receiver, 
Ready to take all, 
You are your own guardian, 
Whether it's spring or fall. 
So I decided to stand, and be like the world, 
Never to be a giver again coz it's no good role.

But how can I ignore the falling tears,
How can I ignore all those dears.
I was taught to be good and kind and helpful,
Not to be cruel and cunning and playful.
So what, if I was treated ill
That's no reason to be mean even a li'l.
Coz out there are a lot of me,
Waiting to be lifted up,
And I can help them and be a giver once again,
So their world gets lit up.

I aspire to be a giver. A giver of love, a giver of good vibes, and a giver of strength. :) 

Understand, Communicate, and Make Life Beautiful. ^_^

The biggest reason why people fall apart is because they don't discuss.

It's good to think that 'I am' right; problem comes when we start to think that *only* I am right.

We can handle many situations in the right way if we try to put ourselves in other person's shoe. Perception towards a situation can be different for two people and it is possible that both of them are right.

Every person is different and has a different personality and thought process. We don't talk to or treat all the people in our life the same way.
When we are friends with someone, we know how that person is and know how to deal with that friend and this can vary for other friends. It's our choice, our decision, that which people or which friends we want in our life. If you want someone to be in your life, you should fight for it, no matter what. And if you feel like not making much efforts, that simply means that that person was never that important to you, so move on. But if something or someone matters to you,DO NOT GIVE UP!

Stop talking to someone is not the solution every time. Most of the times it is necessary to sit and discuss with the person. Communication is an important pillar in any relationship.

We should always express our feelings, our views, our love, our anger, to the closed ones. When we keep things to ourselves only, it starts to build up inside and one day gets burst out…causing much more damage. If you are angry with a friend, tell them! Life is too short for grudges!

If someone is important to you, do express your feelings for them time to time; appreciation and expression of love is something that can make anyone's day! and you'll realise that whenever you make a person smile, happiness flows inside you too. :)

So take out some time and tell your closed ones that you love them, they are important to you, and you need them in your life! :)
These small small things does matter...Make Life Beautiful :)